To keep this site compliant, responsible and safe for members, we are introducing a one-time age verification process for all users.

This means:

• New members will need to complete age verification when they register.

• Existing members will be asked to complete age verification the next time they log in.

• Once your age has been verified, you will not need to complete the process again.

This change is being introduced because the site contains adult content, and Australian online safety requirements now expect stronger age assurance before users can access age-restricted material. A simple “I am over 18” confirmation is no longer considered sufficient.

How the process works

You will be asked to provide evidence that confirms you are 18 or older. This may include submitting proof-of-age evidence through the site, or requesting a manual identity review if you are unable to use the standard upload or camera capture options.

Your account will remain restricted until the verification process has been completed and approved.

How your privacy is protected

We have designed the process to collect and retain as little information as possible.

You may cover or obscure information we do not need, such as your address, licence number, card number, passport number or other document identifiers. The reviewer only needs to see enough information to confirm your legal name and that you are over 18.

Uploaded evidence is used only for age verification review. It is not added to the public site, not stored in the normal media library, and not shared with external age-verification services.

After review, uploaded evidence is automatically permanently deleted by default. The site retains only a minimal verification record, including your verified legal name, verification status, date of verification, method used and reviewer decision. This is kept so we can demonstrate, if required, that the account was properly age-verified.

We do not use facial recognition, biometric matching, tracking pixels or external identity services as part of this process.

We appreciate that age verification adds an extra step, but it is necessary to keep the site operating responsibly and to help ensure age-restricted content is only available to adults.

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We want to keep you in the loop about something important. From December 2025, new Australian government laws will require adult-content websites to verify that all members are 18 years or older. This is a legal obligation, and it’s aimed at protecting under-18s from accessing adult material.

To make sure KinkySydney stays online and compliant, we’re starting to test our age-verification system now. Over the next few weeks, you may notice new steps during registration and (later) when logging in. These checks are designed to confirm age using ID (such as a driver licence, proof-of-age card, or passport) combined with a selfie.

🔒 What this means for you

• Your ID image itself will not be stored. It’s only processed in your browser to confirm age.

• The only details we keep are your name, date of birth, and selfie (as proof of verification and compliance).

• These changes aren’t optional – they’re required by law – but we’re doing our best to make the process quick, discreet, and respectful.

💡 Right now we’re in the testing phase. You may see test prompts or trial verification steps. Please be patient and, if you’re comfortable, help us by trying it out and letting us know if anything doesn’t work smoothly.

This is a big shift for all Australian adult communities, and we want to make sure we get it right before the deadline. Thanks for helping us keep KinkySydney legal, safe, and welcoming for adults.

— The KinkySydney Team 🖤

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